Quiz: Which Of The 5 Love Languages Do You Use?

Everyone has one primary love language.

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 Feb 11, 2020
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Question: 1/33Pick Your Answer!

Which holiday do you love to celebrate?
New Year's Eve
Valentine's Day

Question: 2/33Pick Your Answer!

Your ideal date would be something like...
Jet setting to Vegas
Dinner and a movie
A home cooked dinner
Horseback riding
Coffee and ice cream date

Question: 3/33Pick Your Answer!

Your ideal vacation would be something like...
New York City
A bed and breakfast in the mountains
A luxurious spa and resort
A "stay-cation" with breakfast in bed

Question: 4/33Pick Your Answer!

You'd likely meet your partner at...
The gym
A bar
A café

Question: 5/33Pick Your Answer!

How do you show someone you care?
Give them an extra long back rub after work.
Take them out for a nice meal with you.
Buy them something you know they’ve had their eye on.
Light a few candles and draw a relaxing bath for them.
Write a sweet note to express your gratitude.

Question: 6/33Pick Your Answer!

In high school, you were most likely voted...
Most Athletic
Drama Queen
Most Charitable
Class Sweetheart
Future President

Question: 7/33Pick Your Answer!

How family oriented are you, on a scale of 1-10 (1 being not at all)?

Question: 8/33Pick Your Answer!

How would you feel if your partner didn't get you flowers on Valentine's Day?
End the relationship
Shrug it off, but sulk
Don't even notice
Tell them you’re disappointed
Happy they didn't succumb to marketing pressure

Question: 9/33Pick Your Answer!

What do you like to do for your partner?
Write them a love letter
Order dinner
Give them a massage
Do their part of chores
Watch movies with them

Question: 10/33Pick Your Answer!

What would you like most for your partner to do for you after a long day at work?
Ask you about your day
Hand you their credit card and tell you to buy something
Go for a walk with you
Have dinner ready
Give you a shoulder massage

Question: 11/33Pick Your Answer!

When you watch TV, you:
Sit on your own recliner
Like to be completely alone
Cuddle for awhile but then lay separately
Cuddle together under blankets
Sit on the opposite end of the couch from your partner

Question: 12/33Pick Your Answer!

After a big argument, what's the best way your partner could apologize?
Sending a sweet text
Doing your dishes and laundry
Buying you flowers
Lots of hugs and kisses
Taking you on a romantic date

Question: 13/33Pick Your Answer!

How many times per week does your partner surprise you?
Three - four times
Almost never

Question: 14/33Pick Your Answer!

Your best friend is moving. You would help by...
Paying for the moving truck
Joining to pack up their stuff
Calling and chatting with them while they're packing
Bringing over some takeout
You're too busy to help. Maybe next time.

Question: 15/33Pick Your Answer!

If you were granted one wish, it would be for a ...
Personal trainer
Full-time chef
Long and healthy life
Life coach
Bigger house

Question: 16/33Pick Your Answer!

Which would you most likely do for someone you care about?
Give them a hug.
Send a loving text to let them.
Stop in and surprise them with a visit.
Clean their home.
Have a bouquet of flowers delivered.

Question: 17/33Pick Your Answer!

What would you want your partner to get you for your birthday?
A class you can take together
A couples' massage
A hand-written love note
A home made cake
Diamond earrings

Question: 18/33Pick Your Answer!

Your holiday plans usually look like...
A fancy dinner out with your friends and family
Volunteering at a soup kitchen
Hosting a party for your friends and family
Cuddling on the couch after a homemade dinner
Going skiing in the mountains

Question: 19/33Pick Your Answer!

What is the ideal profession you would want your partner to have?
Business Owner

Question: 20/33Pick Your Answer!

You'd love to spend the evening...
Sitting by the fire having a heart-to-heart
Going on a bike ride
Ordering takeout and catching up
Dinner and drinks somewhere romantic
Watching Netflix while cuddling on the couch

Question: 21/33Pick Your Answer!

The thing you love the most about your partner is their ___.

Question: 22/33Pick Your Answer!

How many times a day do you wish your partner said, "I love you"?
Almost never
A couple times
Several times

Question: 23/33Pick Your Answer!

How much do you like public displays of affection, on a scale of 1-10?

Question: 24/33Pick Your Answer!

What is the nicest thing you partner could say to you?
You are the one I want to spend my life with
You are a great kisser
You have the biggest heart
You are beautiful
You make every day worth living

Question: 25/33Pick Your Answer!

How often do you hang out with your friends?
Once every other month
Once a month
A few times a week
Once a week
Once a year

Question: 26/33Pick Your Answer!

What is one thing you look for in a potential partner?
A romantic side
A caring and sweet side
Wealth and success
Great conversationalist
Someone with a flexible work schedule

Question: 27/33Pick Your Answer!

In general, you don't like it when your partner:
Doesn't help around the house
Is always thinking about their work
Doesn’t kiss you goodbye
Never gives you any presents
Criticizes what you do

Question: 28/33Pick Your Answer!

Something you would do to surprise your partner ...
Take some time out to spend together
Spoil them
Cuddle them for hours
Compliment their style or behavior
Do their least favorite chores

Question: 29/33Pick Your Answer!

If you were to tell your partner one thing, what would it be ....
Your actions speak louder than words to me.
I feel the most loved when you tell me I'm appreciated.
I appreciate when you buy me thoughtful presents.
When you hold my hand, it's the best part of my day.
Eye contact lets me know that you really care.

Question: 30/33Pick Your Answer!

What qualities and behaviors do you value the most in other people?
Praise, positivity and encouragement
Conversations and closeness
Helpfulness and caringness
Thoughtful presents and gifts
Affectionate personality and warmth

Question: 31/33Pick Your Answer!

When you were a child, you felt closest to your parents or siblings when…
They did things for me because they knew I'd enjoy them.
They spoke to me, and we did something fun together.
They verbally expressed how important I was to them.
They caringly touched or physically held me.
They gave me something they knew I would like.

Question: 32/33Pick Your Answer!

To help inspire confidence in another person, do you...
Teach them how to improve and get better.
Provide an outlet for them, and listen to their concerns.
Give them a pat on the back, stating "You can do it!"
Give them an encouraging high five.
Give them a tool or amulet that will help them.

Question: 33/33Pick Your Answer!

Nothing says I love you more than...
A thoughtful gift.
A loving act or helping hand.
Feeling someone else embrace you.
Hearing ''I love you."
Offering your undivided attention to someone.
QUIZ BLISS | Quiz Facts

Take this 5 Love Languages assessment based on the book by Dr. Chapman to discover your love language and begin improving your relationships. Your love language profile will explain your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect to others.

The 5 Love Languages are: 1. Words of affirmation: For those who prefer the words of affirmation language, hearing "I love you" and other compliments are what they value the most. Words hold real value within this language. 2. Quality time: This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention. Unlike the words of affirmation language, talk is cheap and being a loved one's main focus leaves quality timers feeling satisfied and comforted. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful to these individuals. Being there for them is crucial. 3. Receiving gifts: This doesn't necessarily mean the person is materialistic, but a meaningful or thoughtful present it was makes them feel appreciated. 4. Acts of service: For these people, actions speak louder than words. People who speak the language of service want their partner to recognize that their life is rough and help them out in any way possible. Lending a helping hand shows you really care. Basically, if you're not willing to show your appreciation by doing them a favor, you're saying you don't value them. 5. Physical touch: To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch. That doesn't mean only in the bedroom — everyday physical connections, like hand-holding, kissing, or any type of re-affirming physical contact is greatly appreciated. A person who speaks the language of physical touch isn't necessarily an over-the-top PDA'er, but getting a little touchy-feely does make them feel safe and loved. While each of these Love Languages is unique, remember that at the end of the day, they are all ways to express the love you have of another.

Want to know more about the 5 Love Languages? Well, Dr. Gary Chapman actually has six different editions! According to the official Love Languages website, there are tests for couples, singles, men, military personnel, children, and teens. Each test is different and catered to that specific topic.

Dr. Gary Chapman has a passion for people, and for helping them form authentic, lasting bonds. Did you know? He actually is a well-known marriage counselor, making him the perfect resource for determining these love languages.

Now, if you want more quizzes about love and romance, you can take them here! But for now, take this 5 Love Languages quiz to see which one suits your personality!